Moving Forward to S.E.N. 3.0 – Integrated Day Care Service- Past, Present and Future

Looking back on this integrated Day Care and support services for primary students with special education needs (SEN), it is regarded as comprehensive and targeted. This service includes one-stop care and holistic development, inter-disciplinary early intervention, support for children and parents and network building. In the 2022-23 annual survey, satisfaction level of each score reaches 98%. This plan effectively improves the abilities and performances of SEN children in various aspects. It realizes their potential, promotes parent-child relationship and relieves the pressure of caregivers.

Evangel Children’s Home (ECH) has been committed to providing child care for “high-risk” families and preventing problems from worsening. Looking back at the beginning of the Millennium, this service was in high demand. If the assisted families could receive appropriate community support, there will be high chance avoiding their children to be admitted to residential service. Such scarce capacity could be reserved for more “high-risk” families. Thus this non-government-funded day care service came into being and became a pioneer in the sector.

Original Aspiration of the Service

Initially, Day Care service took care of primary students from grassroots, single parents or newcomers to HK. Some parents had to work long hours or on shifts, leading to lack of care for their children. This service responded to these needs by operating extra-long time – 365 days a year from 8am to 10pm. Parents could work with peace of mind when their children were properly cared for. The center also provides parent seminars, support and counseling which strengthen family effectiveness and help these families to help themselves. This service achieved remarkable results and the demand was ever-increasing until 2015 when the Social Welfare Department provided Enhanced After-school Care Program in various districts.

Service Change for SEN Children

At that time, many children admitted to our residential home or Day Care service were diagnosed with Special Education Needs (SEN). It then prompted our services to finetune. Since general community care service may not provide professional care for SEN children, if the situation is not properly handled, it may lead to family crisis. In 2018, we developed a comprehensive service of “S.E.N. – Shine· Empower· Network” which takes care of SEN primary students and supports their families. We are grateful for the continuous support and matching donations from the business sector and the Partnership Fund for the Disadvantaged. The 3 year pandemic did not interrupt this service. With the addition of a Sensory Integration room in 2022, we hope that the business sector can donate again and join hands in this charitable deed. Let us move forward from S.E.N. 2.0 to 3.0 and serve more families in need.

Parents’ Responses to S.E.N. 2.0 Survey

*Parent 1: “S.E.N. 2.0 allows children to develop comprehensively both physically and mentally. Classes such as social skills, speech and sensory integration enhance children’s communication skills, stabilize emotions and they become happier.”

*Parent 2: “In the past, I used to struggle with my son for his homework and self-care. After participating in SEN 2.0, he can finish homework by segment in time, automatically and consciously tidy up his bed and clothes, take meals and clean up by himself. My family is more harmonious now.”

*Parent 3: “In addition to daily life training, children can study intensively in a safe environment. The after-school activities here allow them to broaden knowledge, strengthen self-confidence, interact with others, connect and collaborate. The Bible class teaches them to have empathy and accept each other. Parent workshops help relieves parenting stress.”

*Parent 4: “Training a few days in a week effectively improved the children’s discipline, perseverance and persistence. Thanks to the tutors who answered parents’ questions like friends and saved the whole family from difficult situations. I hope there will be extended services for SEN children who progress to secondary school.

Overcoming Life’s Greatest Difficulties with Daniel’s Family

Primary student Daniel’s mother needed cancer treatment. Daniel’s father could not spare the needed time to take care of him. Fortunately, they learnt about ECH Day Care services for children. ECH considered their emergency situation and referred Day Care service for Daniel to cope with his homework and extended meal arrangements. Daniel’s mother thanked ECH for the quick support to solve the family’s urgent needs. Under the care of ECH, Daniel is grateful to the service and cherishes his beloved family and friends.

Daniel’s family presented testimony in ECH Thanksgiving Worship

We are family focused, children oriented, and community-based. Through Day Care services, we support SEN children and family caregivers in an all-rounded way and strengthen family effectiveness. Families with difficulties derive various parent-child and parenting issues, in addition SEN children have special learning needs, their difficulties are indescribable. The support from all parties motivates us to move forward to S.E.N. 3.0

《Unchanging Love》– Houseparent Dorcus

Dorcus’s idea of joining residential home care service stemmed from an orphanage described in a Japanese cartoon back in the 70’s. Her bright smile and majestic voice became her signature here. She loves to take care of children, just like she took care of 4 younger siblings when she was young. In ten years, this “Big Sister” has taken care of dozens of “siblings”, what’s unchanging is love.

Changes in 10 years

Dorcus is a member of the Evangelical Church. She has heard about Evangel Children’s Home (ECH) for a long time. Full of fantasies in her mind on how the main cartoon character grew up strong in the orphanage “Bonnie’s House”, she also hopes to raise up the children in ECH. She became a full-time houseparent after serving as a volunteer. This change was a big challenge to her. Looking back on those 5 years, she said, “There were endless works here.” Working on shifts also distanced her from relatives and friends. She started to question if this job is really suitable for her. She left here and trained handicapped adults in Hong Kong and the Mainland China. After a while, she returned Hong Kong to take of her elderly parents. At the same time, an ex-colleague suggested she rejoined this big family. Since she loves children, she had decided to come back and serve primary school girls again. Another five years gone by.

Memorable group photo including ECH founder, Ms. Ruth Sundquist (back row 3rd from left) and Dorcus (front row 3rd from right)
Happy time with the children she took care of at their childhood

Unconditional Love

This time, Dorcus found that there were more children with Special Education Needs (SEN). Based on her past experience, she gained new insights into raising up children. In the past, she trained children against her own standards. Now she places more emphasis on discovering the children’s potentials and giving specific instructions. “Schooling is not only about chasing after grades.” She pays more attention to whether the children are trying their best or being sloppy. This change brought her closer to the children. In fact, learning is not limited to the children only. Dorcus realizes that God sent her to serve here so she can grow and change. Through these children, she sees God’s unconditional love. Sometimes she asked God, “Have you also tolerated me like this?”

Giving and Returning Love

Even though the children sometimes exhausted Dorcus physically and mentally, some of their actions also moved her. She remembered when she first came back, there were lots of adaptations and changes. Seeing that she was busy, a quiet girl came to her and said, “Dorcus, I know you are suffering with loads of work”, then the girl went out. Unknowingly, tears ran down her face. Another stubborn girl who could hold a grudge for two hours became friendly with her after two years. Dorcus was curious and asked why, the girl replied: “Because I feel loved, then I can change.” The dialogues with true feelings reflect that the children can feel the care of houseparent and give back, thus healing both parties.

Houseparent Dorcus encounters new challenges every day in face of the children with problems of broken families, special education needs, emotional instability and behavioral issues. In addition to the training in knowledge, skills and experience, she also strives to care for children based on the unchanging love of Christ.

Dorcus realized that God punishes human but He only deals with their behavior, and does not hate that person. When children challenge her, she constantly reminds herself that she may not like their behavior, but everyone is lovable in the image of God. This has become her greatest learning.

《I Believe – Brighter Days are Ahead》– Chloe

Came from a broken family, Chloe (alias) was arranged to stay in children’s home due to domestic violence. In her childhood, she was often resentful but did not know how to express. At one time, she was so depressed she lingered on the street and became a “street kid”. She was then referred to Evangel Children’s Home and her second life began for a brighter future.

Scars of Childhood Trauma

Chloe’s father passed away when she was in P.4 or P.5, thus becoming a single-parent family. Her family was quite patriarchal and the mental state of a family member was unstable, making it difficult to live together. Then she rather lingered on the street and became a “street kid”. She was alienated from her original family but was closer to her maternal half-siblings. In one family dispute, domestic violence sparked off. Fortunately, her teacher and school social worker intervened and she was urgently arranged to live in a small group home. Yet the unpleasant experience there led her lose faith in others. After that, she was referred to Evangel Children’s Home (ECH) and a new chapter began.

A New Home Full of Love

Chloe moved into ECH at her age of 15. She was grateful to a few house parents who cared about her, whom she could pour out her heart, who gave clear guidelines to rewards and punishments and were trustworthy. Passionate in art, Chloe learnt Zentangle art and playing drums in ECH. She loves singing and painting which helped her express her emotions. In the house gathering and regular prayer sessions, she gained deeper and mutual understanding of the other girls and encouraged each other. She was deeply impressed in a corporate volunteer activity when she handmade soap for a charity sale. From making, packaging, transporting to the sale, she devoted herself to the whole process. She took courage to sell them to the people around. They visited the corporate work environment after the sale. It was a good experience to her.

Knowing Herself and Plan for the Future

Chloe described herself as sentimental and only reports good news to others. In fact, her wounded heart is still aching and the unfair treatment of the original family still exists. Despite all these, she still hopes to do something for her family, be a “peacemaker” to mediate family disputes. To prepare for the future, ECH lined up a summer intern job for her at J-Hub – a hub for HK Jewelry Industry. Both the masters and staff were willing to teach her. Later, she enrolled in Tertiary Education of Art and Jewelry Design. She also worked as a part-time in ECH at the same time. Although the workload was quite heavy and the demand was high, it was very challenging. These include preparing and participating in various celebrations for the 65th anniversary of ECH. She took part in performing the 65th anniversary theme song and making of the MV with singer – Ms. Jade Kwan and the other residents, which became unforgettable memories here. The theme song lyrics represent her heart and soul. “I believe there will definitely be one day that I can fly up high to the wide blue sky”.

Fly High with Hope

After leaving residential home at the age of 18, Chloe transitioned into ECH Youth Home and received pre-employment training and plan for her future life. She plans to rent out with her friends after she has enough savings. For future careers, she hopes it will relate to arts and will educate the younger generations. She is willing to be a volunteer, contribute to ECH and side-by-side accompany the new generations here.

The all-rounded care of our residential home helped heal the broken heart of Chloe, allowing her to take root in this stable “Home”, transformed a street kid into a multi-talented young lady, equipped her to move forward bravely and fly with her dreams.

《Walking with My Shadow》- Mia

Lacking family care since childhood, residential youth Mia (alias) pushed through adversity with her strong will. In face of a broken family and the alienation from family members, she no longer depends on her own. With intervention of social workers who helped her transit to self-reliance, she worked extra hard for the future.

Child Neglect cut off Communication

Born in the Mainland, Mia learnt self-care on food, clothing, going to school and homework when she was young, because her single-parent mother was very busy: sometimes for work and sometimes for fun. It turned out that her Mom and Dad were never married. Instead of single parent, they were actually unmarried.

One day, Mia’s mother suddenly brought her to Hong Kong when she was still in primary school. After some struggle, they finally settled down and started a new life. However, some bad habits of Mia’s mother affected their daily lives resulting in negligence to her. The two cannot communicate well since then. Her mother was sometimes emotionally unstable and sanctioned her economically. She tried different ways to prevent her from attending school, thus arousing the attention of the teachers.

Breaking the Deadlock Proactively

The relationship with her family was broken down. Mia began to think about escaping from this predicament. She wanted to find her own direction and get rid of the invisible shackles. During high school, she began to seek assistance from the school social worker. After assessment, she was arranged to live in a youth home where she could focus on further studies and a transition to an independent life. In order to realize her dreams, she worked very hard and made progress. She was successfully admitted to nursing school of a university.

Mia needs a part-time job to be self-sufficient and to commit academic internship at the same time, so she has to manage her time well. It happened that Mia was born with toe deformities. She had undergone multiple surgeries when she was young, leading to amputation of some toes which made her weak in balancing. To make it worse, she had to stand for a long time during internship which caused foot pain and affected her work and performance.

Comprehensive Support Services

Fortunately, ECH youth home provides comprehensive support services. With the help from various parties, Mia no longer fights alone. 3R plan* supported by The Hongkong Bank Foundation through a donation to The Community Chest of Hong Kong provides medical and counseling services. After referral by Youth Home supervisor and evaluated by 3R family doctor, Mia was referred to 3R physiotherapy for follow-up. Her foot pain was relieved. She continues to work part-time and practice in hospital so she could prepare for rental and the future. At the same time, ECH also provides resources through sponsors to support residents who are college/university students, to subsidize their living expenses and scholarships, so as to alleviate the urgent need under the Covid pandemic.

When Mia is asked if she will talk to her mother, she firmly declines. Facing the estranged relationship and the harm caused by the original family, her reaction is understandable. We hope that as the years go by, Mia can find the most suitable lifestyle for herself and start an enriching second life.

*3R plan – Right Care, Right Time & Right Team Project

播道兒童之家65周年主題曲 MV –《日出過山車》 關心妍 x 女宿生主唱

播道兒童之家孩子經歷創傷,透過幫助,療癒劇痛。65周年主題曲以過山車比喻人生經歷高低起跌,憑勇氣和同行者支持,心靈轉化,越過障礙,最後「如鷹高飛」,衝破黑暗,「日出衝破夜晚」。義教孩子唱歌的妍亮生命慈善基金創辦人關心妍,與孩子主唱《日出過山車》,鼓勵他們要有夢想、衝破萬難,迎接生命的每一個挑戰。相信有愛,便會有奇蹟。願愛燃亮更多希望,孩子能安穩成長,「成為擎天楝樑,弱勢變剛強」,迎看「日出璀璨耀眼」。

製作走過高山低谷

籌辦主題曲音樂短片(MV)確實困難重重,製作團隊拍攝過程經歷「過山車」般的考驗。原來天氣也像「過山車」一樣,但憑鬥志排除萬難,禱告交託,最後看到美好的成果。

妍亮生命同行培育

題曲由關心妍與宿生真情演繹,特別有意義。關心妍姐姐分享:「義務教孩子唱歌,是希望將上帝給我的恩賜延續。或孩子將來想做音樂或做歌手,藉一齊錄音及拍MV的過程,她們可以感受相關工作,是很好的經驗。相信孩子有不同的恩賜,可以得到發揮。」。

音樂人用心之作

音樂2000總監 Bobo Mark 及團隊為播道兒童之家創作曲詞,演繹孩子真實的故事,充滿激勵。Bobo Mark自小在播道會恩泉堂長大,他從以往不懂音樂至以音樂事奉30年,見證上帝在每人生命中自有奇妙的作為。能創作《日出過山車》全是恩典,他希望藉這主題曲勉勵同路人不需介意自己的出身,要正面些,因為人生就像過山車,將來會往那裏去是不知道的。

耐心栽培生命轉化

永恆音樂事工執行總監劉港源訓練孩子唱歌及錄音,他見證宿生起初有自卑感,到後期融會歌詞,唱出歌曲的神粹,感到神的同在,生命的轉化,是個奇妙旅程。多次練歌,宿生越唱越投入,由宿生親自演繹,特別感動,充滿正能量。

感謝九龍塘扶輪社及社友們長期支持播道兒童之家,與Maureen Yu聯合贊助MV製作,培育孩子。社友們看著孩子長大,欣賞孩子不怕風雨,堅毅不屈,面對疫情仍努力不懈,發揮創意,見到他們在MV有出色的表現,十分感動。

服務過程的領受

院長羅姑娘讚賞參演孩子的堅持,以團隊精神努力付出。分配歌詞時,亦沒問為何這樣分配,而且互相鼓勵。三個月來的努力經營,希望孩子領悟到「台上一分鐘,台下十年功」的道理,要努力堅持到底,才會有成果。

社工督導Joe哥哥分享,孩子過往經歷過漂泊的生命軌跡,在播道兒童之家找到「暫借的港灣」,在青草地上得到培育、照顧和輔導,走出傷痛,重整生命,勇敢面對人生。

參演宿生分享

曉彤: 很緊張自己的咬字或音準有時未符理想,影響效果,但越緊張就越唱得不好,導演於是教她放鬆。她感恩有這次機會。

學兒: 拍攝外景當日很大霧,靠着祝福,雲霧終於散開。感謝參演MV的男宿生,就算之前曬傷,帶著痛楚跑上氣象站,雖感「痛苦」也盡力演出。

ECH 65th Anniversary Theme Song -《日出過山車》 Jade Kwan & ECH Girls  New【MV】Premiere

《日出過山車》 is a mind-refreshing MV that speaks out the voices of our children. Founder of the Shining Life Ltd – Ms. Jade Kwan, volunteered to support and lead ECH girls to sing. Life is like a roller coaster. With courage, supporter’s companionship and spiritual transformation, they could finally “soaring high like an eagle” and see hope with “sunrise that breaks through the night”. Jade and ECH girls personally expressed their true feelings through the lyrics. Hope that the audiences can also feel the positive energy.

Theme Song 【MV】《日出過山車》Must-see! Brings you Mind-refreshing Inspiration!

The pain of traumatized children can be healed after help. Wish that the children can grow up steadily and “become pillars of tomorrow and the weak become strong”. In the next stage of their “2nd chance in life”, they will see “dazzling sunrise”.

Accompany and Nurture   Jade Volunteer to Teach the Children

Thankful that Jade already started accompanying ECH children since 2017. She volunteered to teach them singing and nurtured a group of youngsters who were interested in joining the singing career. This time, she even sang and recorded the MV with ECH girls and be their role model. Jade watched them grow up and felt their youthful stamina. They are like her sisters and this is heart-warming. Jade encourages children to have dreams and direction, and believe in love. Then miracles will happen. They can overcome all difficulties and embrace every challenge in life. She shared, “I experienced various difficulties in my life. But only with God, I can soar like an eagle.”

Ups and Downs in the Preparation Process

It was a difficult process with ups and downs in preparing the theme song. Thanks to Music 2000, Eternity Music Ministry, and Ms. Jade Kwan – founder of the Shining Life Ltd who volunteered to support, dedicated in producing, performing and supporting.

Through the lyrics, the team conveyed a life like a “roller coaster” ride in front and behind the scenes. Going through the highs and lows in life, they experienced all kinds of difficulties. With will power and perseverance, the results are finally seen.

Miracles Happened Again and Again

Lawrence, the MV director was particularly impressed by the 3-day filming process. In face of the challenges of wind and rain, miracles happened again and again. It was raining on the day of shooting outdoor. At the shooting location, Tate’s Cairn was very foggy. Not only the Tate’s Cairn Meteorological Station was invisible, they almost lost their way. While shooting on the muddy hills in the fog, the girls slipped down one by one. Nevertheless, the director appreciated that they continued very cooperatively. When the clouds and fog slowly scattered, sunny sceneries appeared. He was overwhelmed with gratitude and admiration. Within a few hours, the weather also fluctuated like riding on a “roller coaster”. Under the clear sky, some girls almost suffered heat stroke after running up to the hilltop. Big thanks especially to the hard work of ECH team. The shooting can be completed satisfactorily.

Performing Girls – Sharing from Hiu Tung and Jo

Hiu Tung felt that recording was a big challenge that required high standard. She worried that her articulation or intonation was not as good and might affect the end result. So she was very nervous. However, the more nervous she was, the worse she could sing. The producer therefore taught her to relax then she could sing well. She is thankful for this opportunity.

Jo remembered that it was very foggy on the day of outdoor shooting. With blessings, the fog finally dispersed. Thanks to the boys who took part in the filming, their legs were sunburned (like the color of a lobster) due to previous activities but they still tried their best. It was more difficult to go downhill than to go uphill. She needed help from others. Although they have gone through periods of drizzling rain, scorching Sun and feelings like riding on a “roller coaster”, all is worth after taking pictures of the beautiful sceneries at the end. Thank all for the hard work. Especially thank Jade for teaching and recording together which adds color to the MV.

ECH superintendent Ms. Vivian Law praised the participating children for overcoming all difficulties. She hoped that the children would understand that “one minute on stage needs ten years of hard work off the stage”.

Social work supervisor Mr. Joe Fok shared that the children did experience paths of wandering life in former days. Just like the lyrics “being lonely and dazed, bearing sorrows and joys, gatherings and separations since childhood”. They found footholds in ECH. Arrived at a “temporary harbor where they could take a breath in the wind and rain”, hope they can walk out of the pain through our services.

It was very meaningful that the girls themselves lived out the lyrics and performed in the MV.

Let us “walk through the highs and lows” and feel the positive energy of 《日出過山車》.
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65周年感恩崇拜 -「助跑飛躍見主恩」 暨 主題曲《日出過山車》首播

播道兒童之家65周年一連串的慶祝活動,以感恩崇拜作為尾聲。因應疫情延後,65周年實體感恩崇拜於10月22日假座播道神學院舉行。藉着神的帶領,眾播道會及夥伴堂會領袖、成員、捐獻及支持者應邀出席,與同工、孩子及青年為65周年同證主恩,頌讚主名。

愛的承傳

65載情誼,新舊院友濟濟一堂,包括第一代院友一勤哥哥伉儷,氣氛熱鬧。主禮團隊包括羅美珍院長、葉國偉副院長(兼崇拜主席)、陳永就牧師、郭文池牧師(兼講道嘉賓)、蕭仲駒牧師、張仲明牧師及院友黃桂娟女士(任司琴)。頌讚歌聲帶動下,感恩回顧短片展示各項嶄新服務的發展果效,還有兒童日間院護服務受助家庭的感人見證、中小學女宿生敬拜隊以詩歌讚頌神的偉大創造、剛洗禮的院友見證及一眾家舍青年及院友獻詩,唱頌神捨身救贖。

助跑飛躍見主恩

播道神學院院長 郭文池牧師講道

崇拜中,播道神學院院長郭文池牧師講道,以「恩典與行善」為題,圍繞以弗所書二章8-10節,深入淺出。他解釋神的救恩「全是恩典」,領受恩典的人沒有什麼可以自誇。郭牧師曾與播道兒童之家創辦人申路得姑娘及前院長陳文耀會面,了解建院的艱辛歷程,欣賞播道兒童之家扶持孩子「全力助跑」。人是神創造的「傑作」,領受主恩後擁有生命力去行善,依靠主放下傷痛及執着就能影響身邊人,如加利利海流動的水一樣,有領受主恩,有付出行善,生命就能「全然飛躍」,雙倍豐盛。

65周年主題曲首播

感恩崇拜禮成,繼而進行65周年主題曲《日出過山車》音樂短片(MV)首播。羅美珍院長回望籌備製作過程雖走過高山低谷,但靠着禱告支持,神保守順利完成。感激音樂2000、永恆音樂事工及妍亮生命慈善基金創辦人關心妍義務創作、扶助孩子。關心妍更與宿生主唱合演。音樂2000總監Bobo Mark自小在播道會恩泉堂長大,與播道兒童之家早有聯繫;他從以往不懂音樂至以音樂事奉30年,見證上帝在每人生命中自有奇妙的作為。能創作《日出過山車》全是恩典,希望藉這主題曲勉勵同路人不需介意自己的出身。

《日出過山車》MV演出女宿生即場獻唱。MV及製作特輯在播道兒童之家 YouTube 官方頻道可搜尋播放。

期盼受創傷的孩子都能排除萬難,在播道兒童之家這「暫借的港灣」透過滋養、療癒傷痛,安穩成長,「成為擎天楝樑,弱勢變剛強」,在下一圈的第二人生,迎看「日出璀璨耀眼」。