“Paddling Upstream for Dreams” – Wong Cho Lam to Cheer up Homeless Youth

Evangelical Children’s Home and Rotary District 3450 launched the “Break the Wave Program – Rotary and Homeless Youth” for the 18-year-old homeless youth, and jointly held the “Paddling Upstream for Dreams” Sharing Session on November 17. This is to encourage homeless Youth to muster up courage to overcome difficulties, go upstream and set sails for dreams.

Wong Cho Lam’s sharing – “Upstream of Life “

At the “Paddling Upstream for Dreams” Sharing Session, Wong Cho Lam shared his own background and experience in overcoming barriers at bad times to cheer up the homeless youth. He encouraged them to stand firm and never give up in seeking for their dreams against adverse situations. Students were encouraged to work hard to plan for their future.

Wong Cho Lam remarked frankly that he could “never imagine” whether he could succeed or not when he was young. He only believed in moving towards his goals and dreams step by step. Whatever job opportunity or role he had taken, he sticked to his motto of “Try my best, but prepare for the worst”, and to work hard. Even though he failed, he would never be discouraged and give up.

He believed that young people are like the seeds, while the soil, sunshine and water nurturing its growth could be the encountering with people, friends, frustrations and the self-reflection. He also believed that even encountering barriers like “countering current”, there could always be a way out to “break the wave”. As long as we learned to “just take it easy” and “relax to see where the current would take us, maybe surprisingly, it would bring us to the downstream again.”

Wong Cho Lam’s sharing – “Upstream of Life “

The organizer: Evangel Children’s Home and Rotary District 3450 representatives joined together with honorable guest, Mr. Wong Cho Lam, to cheer for the homeless youth.
From left: Dr. Eric Chin, PDG of Rotary District 3450, Ms. Vivian Law, Superintendent of Evangel Children’s Home, Mr. Law Kai Hong, Vice Chairman of Board of Directors of Evangel Children’s Home, Wong Cho Lam, Honored Guest, Ms. Bee Chan, the Founding President of Rotary Club of Braemar Hill and the Organizing Committee Chairman of the “Break the Wave Program – Rotary and Homeless Youth”.

Homeless Youth Personal Stories

The sharing guests also included Manci Man, the founder of M PATISSERIE in making art cakes and she was brought up from children home, Siu Yue Ming, a youth beneficiary of Evangel Children’s Home, “Flying Star” and “Strong Baby”, graduates of HKCC and also aging out youth from children’s homes. Singer-songwriter Chaelia Wong also sang for the event the theme song.

Even if you fail to “win at the starting line”, it does not mean that you will always be behind. As long as you have a goal, are willing to kick start, and put in the greatest perseverance and effort, you can finally start a second new life and create your own future.

The Youth Home social worker provided Yue Ming with counseling and career planning service, from which he understood, better him. He was given a chance to complete his studies and finally found a stable job.
Manci Man, who is brought up from children home always says. “It is because of my early childhood experience that helps develop me to the current stage”.
“Flying Star” and “Strong Baby”, graduates of HKCC and also aging out youth from children’s homes, encouraged young people to strive for self-improvement and muster up courage facing difficulties and adversity.
“Break the Wave…, say the slogan, together”
Singer-songwriter Chaelia composed and sang the theme song – “Drifting Log” for the seminar.

《Aiming on the Target》– Siu Yui Ming

Due to domestic and family violence and emotional issue, Yui Ming was arranged to stay in Evangel Children’s Home when he was 10 years old. He had to leave his home at a young age. According to the social welfare regulations, he must age out at the age of 18. However, Yui Ming has not yet completed the DSE course yet, so he went home to live with his mother with an attempt of trying. There were still many conflicts. Because he had to take care of both school and part-time jobs, his mother complained that he had been often away from home, and he is useless with little earnings, and should not live at home. He was often ridiculed, and his belongings were being thrown away from home. It was not possible to continue living with her, and he was forced to leave again.

Later, he learned that there was a “Second Chance in Life Sponsorship Program”, and he returned to Evangel Children’s Home after half a year to stay in their youth home. The home provided a transitional residence and a stable place to live. A mentor discussed the road ahead with him, and his heart gradually settled down. Yui Ming said frankly that when he was at home, there were no elders to talk to him about this topic, and he was often the only one, and he was very confused about the future. “I need a lamp to see the way forward” was Yui Ming’s voice at the time.

After graduating from DSE, Yui Ming successfully joined the MTR as a railway maintenance worker. The two-year transition period of the Youth Home was over. The mentor helped find a kind-hearted landlord that he moved into small units in the urban area at lower rents. With a stable job and home, Yui Ming set goals for himself to take courses related to maintenance and hoped to become a maintenance master in 10 years. In his spare time, he would also join volunteer services and participate in voluntary tutorials, hoping to help children with similar experiences through his own experience.

Looking back, Yui Ming was very grateful to the people he met, those who helped him, and led him to grow. He used to be introverted and he was afraid of many things. Nowadays he had learned the skills to be independent and he knew how to take care of himself. He believed that “people must be contributing, and the important thing is to learn.” He learned how to deal with things and how to respect others. He did not feel resentment about his background. He saw his family important. Even if he could not get along for some reason, he would still need to meet up family members, love and care for them because his family could not be replaced.

Yui Ming encourages fellow youth to learn to equip themselves, find the target like a shot into a basket, keep their eyes on the shot, and stick to the target.

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