ETNet TV – 說說心理話 – 羅美珍院長分享「最滿足是看到孩子們長大後有好好生活」

專訪播道兒童之家羅美珍院長
主持: 崔潔彤、利嘉敏教授 

今集,羅院長繼續分享更多的個案,當中有有趣的,有窩心的,亦有感動的。播道兒童之家院長羅美珍,當了29年院長,她表示最大的動力,是看到孩子們長大之後有好好生活,創傷得以療癒,在播道兒童之家的生活留下快樂的回憶。多方面的努力,讓住宿的孩子可以重回正軌,可以再一次擁有一個開心的人生。

羅美珍院長分享

羅院長覺得童年不快樂,需要用一生來療癒,所以她經常叮囑同事要給孩子一個快樂的回憶,怎樣都要說造就的說話,怎樣都不要說傷害他們的說話。面對來自破碎或有問題家庭的孩子,羅院長覺得要重要是給他們愛,讓他們知道世上還有人是愛他們的。


羅院長感觸孩子們都很希望有一個家,雖然播道兒童之家不是一個真的家,但都想讓他們覺得有「家的感覺」。 播道兒童之家就是一些受了童年創傷或是弱勢孩子的第二個家,重新給予他們快樂的童年,可以在愛中好好成長。


曾經有女院友在院舍出嫁,羅院長兩夫婦更做主婚人;另有第一代院友捐贈了位於九龍城一個2,000呎的物業給播道兒童之家作「青年家舍」,讓過了18歲的院友可以較低費用過渡自立生活;他們應該都一早把播道兒童之家當作真正的家了!


播道兒童之家成立了70年,羅院長更分享在去年(2024年) 有第一代70多歲的院友回饋捐贈了兩所物業給播道兒童之家作「青年家舍」,是一種一代傳一代、承傳的愛。

利嘉敏教授Kaman分享

在心理上的角度,一個人感覺到有人愛他,這個能量是很大的。對一個人來說,有一個原因去繼續活著,這個動力很重要。相反地,當一個人覺得這個世界沒有人愛他,他基本上可以自我放棄,所以愛是很重要的。

節目重溫節錄自《ETNet TV》說說心理話 I 健康好人生
23/12/2025「最滿足是看到孩子們長大後有好好生活」
https://youtu.be/Orvim9BSNis

【時間分段】
01:20 如何應對SEN的孩子?
03:45 窩心個案分享
07:38 為孩子製造愉快的回憶
08:52「有人去愛」的重要性
12:00 第一代院友捐出兩間屋作中途宿舍
13:42 有院友在播道兒童之家出嫁
14:40 甚麼令羅院長堅持29年?

ETNet TV – 說說心理話 – 羅美珍院長分享「如何從小孩子的行為察覺他們心理上有壓力?」

專訪播道兒童之家羅美珍院長
主持: 崔潔彤、利嘉敏教授 

播道兒童之家院長羅美珍,當了29年院長,數十年照顧來自破碎家庭的兒童及青少年,他們都面對著不同的問題,例如家暴、父母吸毒或坐監等,當中亦有部份是孤兒。羅院長跟大家分享當中遇過最難忘的個案。羅院長及利嘉敏教授亦會分享如何從孩子的異常行為觀察出他們正面對壓力問題,原來及早發現、及早治療,可以減低50%惡化的可能性,家長們要好好學起來!

羅美珍院長分享

羅院長分享其中一個最困難的是孩子第一次踏入院舍時,來到一個陌生的地方,同工如何可以令他們留下來安心居住。因為很多孩子都有創傷的經驗,需要很多的安撫,給予他們很多安全感,並藉著信仰 (祈禱、講故事等) 慢慢讓他們感覺到安全地留下來。曾經有一個孩子不喜歡入住院舍,又不喜歡上學,他說話時會不自覺地拔眉毛、眼眉毛及頭髮,原來是一種壓力的表現。

利嘉敏教授Kaman分享

Kaman表示當小孩子承受住不懂得表達的壓力,會有一些前驅症 (即表現行為),當孩子有行為開始異常、改善了自我照顧的習慣 (例如突然不喜歡沖涼)、感觀(視覺、聽覺、味覺) 異常,以及情緒起伏比較大,如持續地發生可能已經是告訴我們精神狀態出現了變化,家長要加以注意。Kaman提及在前期的時候及早發現精神病患,可以把他們情況惡化的可能性減低50%。

節目重溫節錄自《ETNet TV》說說心理話 I 健康好人生
9/12/2025「如何從小孩子的行為察覺他們心理上有壓力?」
https://youtu.be/yvwX147x6aI

【時間分段】
00:48 播道兒童之家的簡介
03:39 個案分享
12:00 如何察覺小孩子正面對壓力?
14:22 如何解決兒童壓力問題?

NRG Taekwondo Korea and Hong Kong Elim Presbyterian Church’s Young Adult Ministry Volunteer at Evangel Children’s Home On

On April 12, masters from NRG Taekwondo Korea (led by Master No Rae) and approximately 20 young adults from the Hong Kong Elim Presbyterian Church (led by Pastor Kim Seongcheol under Senior Pastor Cho Yoon Tae) visited Evangel Children’s Home (ECH). The visit began with English worship songs and dances that the children could follow along with, creating an opportunity to build rapport with them. The taekwondo dance performance which followed helped open the children’s hearts even more, improving the atmosphere. The final Taekwondo demonstration by Master No and NRG Taekwondo masters brought everyone together in cheers and applause, creating a unified experience.

After all the performances concluded, Pastor Kim delivered a sermon to the children about Jesus’ cross in preparation for the upcoming Easter. Through his message that “God sent His Son Jesus to forgive our sins although we are sinners,” the children received the message of God’s unconditional love.

“Seeing the children here made me realize how precious the things I’ve taken for granted are,” said Sangju Lee, one of the NRG Taekwondo masters who joined the event. “I initially came with a simple mindset of volunteering, but the time spent with these children was valuable, and though I came to serve, I feel I received much more.”

Hyunseong Lee, from the young adults ministry of Elim Church, recalled: “If last year’s mural painting was about covering the children’s wounds with love, this year while creating frames to hold the children’s artwork, I felt that we should always hold these children in our hearts. Although we only meet these children once a year, I wanted to convey that Jesus always walks with them, and I realized we should always keep them in our prayers.”

Halim Kim, from the church university ministry, shared: “I had the opportunity to visit Evangel Children’s Home again this year after last year’s visit. While I remember approaching each other cautiously and awkwardly last year, this year the children approached me first, and I felt warmed by their reduced guardedness.”

“What particularly stands out in my memory was a child who told me about scoring 12 on her math exam. That cheerful and innocent expression made me smile too. Another child who could barely make eye contact last year due to trauma was smiling brightly this year, sharing dreams of becoming a doctor. When the children talked about school or made casual comments about who was good-looking, I realized these children are no different from kids outside—just ordinary, innocent children. Hearing that their favorite food is the Korean fried chicken we’ve shared in last year’s event, I learned gratitude from how they find joy even in the smallest things.”

“However, thinking about what scars and memories might chase these children throughout their lives weighs heavily on my heart. Nor do I know the reason why the child I’ve painted pictures with had to have her face blurred in the official photograph. I also got to know that due to government policy, the children must leave ECH when they turn 18. Though ECH provides a transition period to help them adapt to society, I find myself continuing to pray that they can pursue their dreams in the world ahead, walking with Christ.”

Hyunseo Kim, also from the church university ministry, shared: “The children I visited after a year left me with many new thoughts. Unlike last year when church members conducted activities separately, this volunteer opportunity allowed us to interact directly with the children, giving me a warmer feeling.”

“A child who was initially hesitant to even share their name when we started drawing activities later came to hold my hand, asked to take pictures together, climbed on me to jump, and was upset because they couldn’t eat at the same table with me. This made me think about how much heart and love we can share in such a short time.”

“After returning, I couldn’t begin to measure what wounds these children carry from their past, present, or future, but I found myself praying that they continue to share healthy minds and love through good relationships. I hope I remain a good memory for those children as their ‘big sister.’ I hope to have another opportunity to be with the children again!”

Master No Rae, who sponsors Evangel Children’s Home, served as the bridge between NRG Taekwondo and Hong Kong Elim Presbyterian Church again this year, following last year’s collaboration. Regarding his reasons for supporting ECH for multiple years, Master No explained, “When South Korea was poor in the past, there were missionaries who spared no love and care for that land, which is why South Korea exists as it is today and we can now live in an environment without lack.

Therefore, I believe we shouldn’t just end with what we’ve received, but should pass on the love we’ve received, which is why I sponsor these children. We don’t know what influence our taekwondo demonstration and praise dance shown today might have on these children in the future. Perhaps even one of these children might be touched and become a great person who passes on the love they received today. I hope that such a virtuous cycle of love continues.”

We hope that activities like this, where young adults can share their various gifts, will continue. We look forward to seeing how the precious hearts of these young adults toward the next generation will be conveyed to the children, continuing the virtuous cycle of love that Master No hopes for. Evangel Children’s

About Evangel Children’s Home (ECH):

ECH was established in 1956 by an American missionary in Hong Kong. This NGO is committed to supporting the healthy growth of orphans, children and youth from broken families. Part of the funding is raised under the ECH Sponsorship Program for the holistic development of children. 

www.ech.org.hk

< The food shared during this visit was sponsored by ‘Yechan’ (a Korean restaurant located in Hong Kong). Please understand that some children’s faces are blurred due to regulations of protection of children.

https://weeklyhk.com/news/view.php?idx=28218

 

Weekly HK (Korean News) – Review of HK Elim Presbyterian Church College Ministry’s Volunteer Service at ECH (Translation)

On April 13th, approximately twenty college students from Hong Kong Elim Presbyterian Church (led by Pastor Park조윤태) visited the Evangel Children’s Home, a local residential group home to serve the children from broken families in Hong Kong. There, we conducted a Korean language workshop, shared traditional Korean games (딱지치기 ttakji-chigi and 제기차기 jegichagi) and basketball, introduced Korean food culture, and participated in a mural service project.。

At first, there was a sense of unfamiliarity and distance, but as time passed, the children at Evangel Children’s Home approached us with bright smiles and warm welcomes. Despite their smiles, it was impossible not to feel the pain and difficulties these young friends had been through. Most of the children there had been separated from their parents due to domestic violence and discord. Consequently, I was cautious in approaching them, also worrying whether it might be burdensome for the children. However, as we taught them songs of praise and played traditional games, the children began to open up and enjoy themselves, prompting me to reflect on my own hesitations. “Ah, they are also God’s beloved children,” I thought.

Realizing that I could not solve all their problems or be of significant help was both a burden and a source of compassion. Yet, upon realizing that God could accomplish what I could not, I devoted myself to expressing God’s love to these young friends through my limited language and gestures. I wondered the extent of grace that God, who gently heals even my smallest wounds and sorrows, would extend to these children who have endured great hardships from a young age, and what plans He might have in store for them. This experience led me to a moment of prayer: “I will do my best from my position, God. Please watch over these children, meet them, and stay with them.” I hope that the short time spent with these children offered them some comfort for their wounds and replaced their painful memories with joyful ones. To the end, I look forward to the next visit and will continue to pray that God’s love reaches them.

Master노래 Rae No of NRG Taekwondo, a donor of the Evangel Children’s Home, a local residential group home in Hong Kong, also played a bridging role in this volunteer activity. The loving heart that shares this involvement with others is truly beautiful. The college students conveyed love to the disadvantaged children, and a child who received love will in turn share that love with others. I look forward to seeing such activities continue to flourish.

About Evangel Children’s Home (ECH):

ECH was established in 1956 by an American missionary in Hong Kong. This NGO is committed to supporting the healthy growth of orphans, children and youth from broken families. Part of the funding is raised under the ECH Sponsorship Program for the holistic development of children.

www.ech.org.hk

<Text and Photos by Elim Church College Ministry>

https://www.weeklyhk.com/news/view.php?idx=27447

“Nothing New under the Sun” – Sharing from Vivian Law, Superintendent of Evangel Children’s Home about the Newborn Baby Abandonment Incident

On the opening monument of Evangel Children’s Home, it reads: Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me.” It is so true….

At about 5 am on February 2nd, Moon, a night duty staff, reported that there was a baby outside the front-gate. I really had no idea. After clarification, I realized that someone had abandoned a newborn baby at the door! Why are the “plots” of the fifties and sixties still happen today? After a while, there was a lady passing by. Her emotion seemed to be out of control. She slammed the gate, shouting that a baby was crying and why was there no one taking care of? Knowing that she is a Christian, I comforted her that as God let her be an angel passing by; I trust the baby would be saved.

I walked towards the “Recycle Hand Bag Object”, where the crying sound was from, in a trembling mood and discovered there was really a newborn baby, wrapped in a cloth only. She cried out loud, stretched her legs, at around 7 pounds. The lady next to me was not calmed down yet. On one side, I said to her, “You see, the baby has such a strong vitality! She will definitely grow up healthily.”  On the other side, I asked a colleague to take an umbrella to cover the bag to protect the baby from the wind, and took a towel to wrap around the bag. The temperature was only about 13 degrees Celsius.  Thereafter, an ambulance arrived and it was finally safe.

Later, I was informed that the lady who was suspected of abandoning the baby wandered for a long time along the road at the front gate as early as around 3:30 am, and she finally pressed the door-bell. Not until someone answered the door, she left then. I believed when she brought the baby to Evangel Children’s Home, she trusted that this Home should be a place with love and care. Suddenly, our home was on news that day. I hope God ’s name will be exalted. When people have no way out, God will open the door.

The next day, a colleague told me about what a child living in resident care home, awakened by the slammed gate noise talked about the case. When she knew that someone had abandoned her baby at the front-gate, she said, “That mother really loves her baby. It is because she knows she cannot take care of her; she chooses the best home for her and that is why the baby was put in front of the Evangel Children’s Home.” However, I feel bad with this sharing, and very true, it is more or less a portrait of the child.

My Daily Devotion and Bible Verse on That Day:

“But the Lord is the true God; he is the living God and an eternal king: when he is angry, the earth is shaking with fear, and the nations give way before his wrath.”

Jeremiah 10:10 (Union Version).

What I have also received is that God is graceful and merciful. His grace is sufficient and His mercy endures forever. May the work of our hands be sacrifices to God’s delight. We wish the baby a healthy growth!

晴報–逆境自強—入住播道兒童之家9年 19歲男生努力進修盼做社工助人

【即使面前困難處處,但人生總有出路。現年19歲的浩文生於完整家庭,惟因父親吸毒和母親患病的緣故,他自小被送往不同家庭寄養,自卑心湧現。小三那年他被送往兒童之家,再次轉換環境令他感到不適應;猶幸獲院舍提供很多關懷和協助,浩文逐漸打開封閉而久的心扉,個性漸變開朗。至去年中學畢業,他遷往青年家舍生活,學習獨立的同時亦得到家舍多方面的協助,令他認清人生目標,盼能成為一名好社工,好好回饋社會。】轉載首段

播道兒童之家院長羅姑娘與浩文
浩文分享在疫情下考DSE的心聲

轉載自《晴報》

撰文記者:賴天兒

相片:播道兒童之家提供

https://skypost.ulifestyle.com.hk/article/2955566/?utm_medium=share&utm_source=clipboard_share?r=cpsdlc

有線電視–小事大意義–「愛心業主助無家青年Leo」

在寸金尺土的香港,住屋租金冠絕全球,對於家庭發生突變的青年,霎時失去居所,他們怎樣面對租屋的困難?播道兒童之家青年家舍舊宿生Leo,因遭家暴後入宿,面對有家歸不得,透過「第二人生助跑計劃」服務過渡自立。感恩得到愛心業主平租單位,更感恩是他與父親復和,還帶他返教會。 Leo發奮多年,今天,他已完成學位,有穩定工作,並有能力自住。

Leo與爸爸同住時,因與父親發生爭執,須入醫院治療。經社工介入後,入住播道兒童之家青年家舍。期間正修讀高級文憑課程,晚間做兼職維持日常開支。Leo入宿時大約19歲,是初期第二人生助跑計劃青年家舍宿生,唯青年家舍只限住2年,當時青年社區共住服務還未推出。他面對須搬出租屋,感到很徬徨,離開時還在學的他,要應付高昂租金及其他開支,經濟壓力非常大,只能在元朗的偏僻村落租住圍村套房。雖然租金較便宜大約三千多元,但交通費每月差不多要二千元,每月所賺的大部份也用在學費和交租,當時真稱不上是生活,只是為了生存而活。

在全職工作兩年後,他再一邊工作一邊修讀學位課程,因回家須趕尾班車,連放學後與同學研習功課的時間也沒有。家舍導師盡力幫助,透過教會網絡,最終找到以市值六折租金,約三千元以下租住位於太子的劏房。在太子單位居住了約4年,期間順利完成學士學位,畢業後他找到穩定工作。現在Leo已有能力租住其他單位。

Leo感恩得到「第二人生助跑計劃」的幫助,有愛心業主在經濟上的協助,讓他有空間發揮所長,給予機會自力更生。

更感恩的,是Leo入宿期間,獲家舍導師邀請參與播道會同福堂九龍東堂聚會認識福音,有一次牧師為他禱告並給他猶如父親的擁抱,把他的心軟化,聖靈一直作工,他最後與爸爸復和,還帶他返教會。

Leo最近更勇敢接受有線電視訪問,讓公眾了解那「做在小子身上的工」,那助力多大!

節目重溫:有線電視–小事大意義 [愛心業主助無家青年] (https://fb.watch/2PyIrKhyIc/)

香港01 – 林淑敏擔任助跑之星向青年「送水」鼓勵:我也經歷過很大難關

「大小姐」林淑敏為播道兒童之家的「第二人生助跑計劃」擔任助跑之星,更為計劃拍攝的籌款影片《逆境有你起跑易》,剛於 11 月 28 日晚上的「逆境有你起跑易!播道兒童之家籌款首映會」開 Live中,透過 Facebook 專頁及 YouTube ECH 專屬頻道首播。首映會由藝人阮小儀擔任嘉賓主持。

嘉賓主持阮小儀與播道兒童之家青少年開Live。(播道兒童之家提供)

林淑敏在片中分享:「我的生命也經歷過很大難關,難關之中,領會到除了自己的努力,身邊有愛你和關心你的人也非常重要。」她鼓勵家舍青年,努力堅持,不要放棄,夢想總會實現;並分享家舍青少年在人生起跑線上,只是先天裝備可能不足,需要我們關心和幫助,使他們的才能得以發揮。各方支持,有助過渡難關。

睇睇部分影片片段:

而在首映會上以歌聲為家舍青年打氣的助跑嘉賓關心妍,與一班家舍孩子齊齊以詩歌 —《當行你走到無力》帶出正面訊息。她表示自己也來自單親家庭,很明白成長之路的困難,幸運地在這段路上找到自己對唱歌的興趣,一直努力走下去;她深明陪伴家舍孩子同行的重要,希望自己的榜樣能成為他們的借鏡,所以願意義務教家舍孩子唱歌,鼓勵他們,讓他們看到希望,走出困局,活出第二人生。

關心妍義教家舍女孩。(播道兒童之家提供)

撰文:秦志鴻

相片:(播道兒童之家提供)

林淑敏擔任助跑之星向青年「送水」鼓勵:我也經歷過很大難關

https://bit.ly/3lAKCYA

東網 – 「大小姐」變魔鬼教練 林淑敏教踩單車有感而發

藝人林淑敏於處境劇《愛‧回家之開心速遞》飾演「大小姐」一角為人熟悉,潑辣形象深入民心,但其實私底下充滿愛心,近日佢為慈善活動拍攝宣傳影片,片中佢化身魔鬼教練,扶持青年人完成單車比賽,佢更有感而發表示:「如果人生係一場單車比賽,咁每一個人嘅裝備同單車,都可能有少少唔同。喺呢個社會有好多年輕人,佢哋可能喺起跑線上比較遲,佢哋先天嘅裝備可能唔足夠,佢哋好需要我哋嘅支持同幫助,令佢哋嘅才能得以發揮。」佢又分享自身經歷:「我嘅生命都經歷過好大嘅困難,難關之中我明白除咗自己嘅努力,身邊有愛你同關心你嘅人都好重要。」

相片:(播道兒童之家提供)

雖然「大小姐」很潑辣,但林淑敏其實好有愛心。(播道兒童之家提供)
林淑敏自己都遇過唔少困難。(播道兒童之家提供)
好彩身邊人都好關心佢。(播道兒童之家提供)

「大小姐」變魔鬼教練 林淑敏教踩單車有感而發                                          

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TOPick – 「大小姐」林淑敏愛心爆棚 拍片為慈善團體籌款:夢想總會實現

在《愛.回家之開心速遞》十分惡死的「大小姐」林淑敏,實際充滿愛心。她任播道兒童之家的「助跑之星」,為該組織的「第二人生助跑計劃」拍攝的籌款影片。

影片早前透過Facebook專頁及YouTube頻道首播,並由阮小儀任首映會嘉賓主持,並由助跑嘉賓關心妍獻唱,希望藉籌款影片讓更多人了解「第二人生助跑計劃」的意義。

阮小儀任首映會主持。(照片來源: 播道兒童之家)

林淑敏分享稱: 「我的生命也經歷過很大難關,難關之中,領會到除了自己的努力,身邊有愛你和關心你的人也非常重要。」

她鼓勵家舍青年努力堅持,不要放棄,夢想總會實現。林淑敏並指,家舍青少年在人生起跑線上,只是先天裝備可能不足,需要我們關心和幫助,使他們的才能得以發揮。各方支持,有助過渡難關。」

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【開心速遞】「大小姐」林淑敏愛心爆棚 拍片為慈善團體籌款:夢想總會實現

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